I'm sorry for you....not.

Sometimes it seems to me that people feel sorry for other people they really shouldn't. What I mean is if it’s a persons fault they're in the situation they're in in the first place, why feel sorry for them? Generally speaking in these situations it's a direct result of the choices and decisions the persons made. If the person would make a different set of choices, they could almost always have avoided the situation.

Now I know sometimes it's not a persons fault, and there's absolutely nothing they could do about what happened (ie. death of someone). But going back and looking at most things, most situations myself and others have been in, the scenarios are heavily influenced by the decisions we've made.

So, to conclude, don’t feel sorry for someone if the situation creating the feeling of sorrow is the effect of their stupid choices, especially if that someone is unwilling to rectify the situation with better choices. Hell, that's one of the reasons I can't stand people feeling sorry for me. I make my own stupid choices and stand by some of them, I have no one to blame but myself, so there's no reason to feel sorry for me. Just my two cents.


Anyway, on a separate note, I'll be posting a story I started today soon so keep an eye for it. It's mostly a metaphorical story about certain events so far so we'll see how it goes.